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Sunday, May 16, 2010

When yours, Insult You

From the beginning I have been a low tempered guy. Getting frustrated when some members of my family or my friends insult me in front of their friends was unusually common. The fact is things always can't go the way you like and the things always can't go the way others like. Nowadays kids are different, they insult their own family members in front of their friends just to gain reputation in their friend circle or to follow the conditions of their friends circle. At that point the kid loses his control over the mind and forgets everything which will do some damage to the families reputation. He/she just gets under the control of the leader of the friend circle and follows their instruction.

These days suicides are increasing at a alarming rate . Reasons behind these suicides can be - kids not able to adjust themselves in the environment, bullying with a kid just exposed to a new environment and a kid not able to follow the conditions of his friend circle. Parents should personally ask their kids about their problems with the friend circle or environment. If a kid is not able to tell you about his problems just leave him alone and tell him to write his problems because as you know writing is one of the best ways to express yourself. Insulting a kid badly or insulting along with a group can also lead to suicides.

Best friends are not the one who let you play with their cool play-stations, they are not the one who give you money to buy junk food and let you stay for sleep overs. Best friends always are the one who help you and share there hapiness with you.