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Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Your Apparent Payoffs

Submissive

You avoid unpleasant situations, conflicts, short-term tensions, and confrontations. You don't have to take responsibility for your choices .

Assertive

You feel good. You feel respected by others. Your self-confidence improves. You make your own choices. Your relationships with others are improved. You have very little physical distress now or later. You are in touch with your feelings .

Aggressive

You get some anger off your chest. You get a feeling of control. You feel superior.


The Effects On Others

Their Feelings

They feel guilty, superior, frustrated, or even angry.
They feel respected or valued.
They feel free to express themselves.
They feel humiliated, depreciated, or hurt.
Their Feeling Toward You

They feel irritated. They pity and depreciate you.
They feel frustrated or disgusted with you.
They lose respect for you because you are a pushover.
They usually respect, trust, and value you.
They know where you stand.
They feel hurt, defensive, humiliated or angry.
They resent distrust, fear you.
They may want revenge.

Probable Outcomes Of Each Type Of Behavior

You don't get what you want. If you do get your own way , it is by indirect means . You feel emotionally dishonest. Others achieve their goals at your expense. Your rights are violated. Your anger builds up, and you either push it down or redirect it toward other people who are less powerful. You may find yourself procrastinating, suffering in silence, doing things half-heatedly, being sloppy, or becoming forgetful. Others manipulate you . Loneliness and isolation may become common in your life.

You often get what you want if it is reasonable. You often achieve your goals. You gain self-respect. You feel good.

Monday, April 13, 2009

Attitude

Critics often describe a poor performance by an actor or an actress as two dimensional- he or she looked correct, but didn't have the liveliness to bring that flat image to life. Unfortunately, many people act out real two- dimensional lives every day. Consider the handsome man who lacks the warmth, the humor or the intelligence to merit more than a few lengthy offer the world. The truth is, others want more than a few lengthy offer the world. The truth is, others want more than that, and he, in fact, should demand it of himself.

The man to whom sustained interest is shown will be the one who has the excitement about him whose zest for life animates his whole being and who shares this electricity with whose who touch him of course, no one can be '' on'' twenty-four hours a day; and having to talk yourself into feeling into feeling this joie de vivre won't make it either - you must truly feel it . But you can genuinely improve your outlook on life much of the time and be the flame that attracts others.

The words that sums up this feeling is attitude.

WORDS TO LIVE BY

Expressive
Able
Vibrant
Alive
Go-getter
Confident
Positive
Assertive
Assured

WORDS TO FORGOT IMMEDIATELY

Shy
Incompetent
Timid
Passive
Meek
Doubting
Critical
Nervous
Afraid


How do you get from the right side of the page to the left ? COURAGE. You look your fears in the face and dismiss them. That means ignoring nervous cramps, sweaty palms, and a heart beating in double time. The only way to get from A to B is to breathe in, forge ahead, and never turn around. Forcing yourself to accomplish something to take that first step into unchartered water gives you a positive self-history to refer to when the time comes for a harder trial . Trust in yourself little by little. There is no other way to overcome fear.

Use this same logical progression to accomplish the more personal goals of self-improvement. If you aren't happy with your job, or with your pizazz quotient, ask yourself why. Make a list, then tackle it . Don't give in to and set goals to get yourself moving on the right track. Take positive action DOING when facing a negative situation always improves your virtues. Read it aloud whenever you feel insecure.

SUMMARY


  1. Start to face your fears by rationally breaking them down and analyzing the components.
  2. Don't let the past keep you from moving forward. All that exists for you to achieve should tempt you to attempt.
  3. Attempt , regardless of possibility of failure, and you won't fail.
  4. Trust in yourself and believe in your self-worth. Sit down and make a list of your virtues. Read it aloud whenever you feel insecure.

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Bengaluru

My First Impression Of Bengaluru City
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  • Bengaluru's international airport was the best thing I saw. It was totally made of glass except the floor . It has many international brands showroom.
  • I loved city taxi's because I had never seen taxi having GPS. And it was not a Ambassador it was Mahindra Logan .
  • My apartment's activity block is excellent it has swimming pool ,billiards, TT,Gymnasium and lot of things to play.
  • My house interior is excellent and occupies a large place .It has a huge hall where me and my sisters play.

What I Do Not Like In Bengaluru
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  • I do not like the person who bought Maruti-800 to the international airport of Bengaluru.
  • I do not like the crying feature of my cousin sister every time.
  • I do not like the healthy vegetable dinner and Lunch which we get daily.
  • I do not like the swimming pool also because it's only 4 feet in depth and the water comes only to my chest.
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Saturday, March 14, 2009

Dashing Cars

Jaguar XF 10


The FUORE DESIGN team, above all Erwin Himmel, have developed a racy sports car: driven by the sporting spectacle of the Grand Prix world, and the great English make’s traditional values. The XF 10’s presence leaves no room for doubt: Surrounded by the scent of Formula One. A two-seater, given, but unmistakably demanding nonetheless.








Audi RSQ


The Audi RSQ is a mid-engined concept car developed by Audi AG for use as a product placement in the 2004 sci-fi movie I, Robot. It is meant to depict a technologically advanced automobile in the Chicago cityscape from the year 2035.






Audi TT Roadster

True to its iconic design, the Audi TT Roadster brings into perfect balance the athleticism of a thoroughbred sports car with the pure design principles of a modern classic. The Audi TT Roadster - a genuine sports car.









Lamborghini 1280


It is one of the most costly cars in the world , it costs more than 4 crores . Its RPM is 3500 hp and it can pick speed 80 miles/h in 8 secs .

Friday, March 13, 2009

Trip to Haridwar and Dehradun





Standing near the entrance of Laxman Jhula in Haridwar just above the Ganga.The bridge is home for monkeys and birds and a famous tourist place.