Attitude

Critics often describe a poor performance by an actor or an actress as two dimensional- he or she looked correct, but didn't have the liveliness to bring that flat image to life. Unfortunately, many people act out real two- dimensional lives every day. Consider the handsome man who lacks the warmth, the humor or the intelligence to merit more than a few lengthy offer the world. The truth is, others want more than a few lengthy offer the world. The truth is, others want more than that, and he, in fact, should demand it of himself.

The man to whom sustained interest is shown will be the one who has the excitement about him whose zest for life animates his whole being and who shares this electricity with whose who touch him of course, no one can be '' on'' twenty-four hours a day; and having to talk yourself into feeling into feeling this joie de vivre won't make it either - you must truly feel it . But you can genuinely improve your outlook on life much of the time and be the flame that attracts others.

The words that sums up this feeling is attitude.

WORDS TO LIVE BY

Expressive
Able
Vibrant
Alive
Go-getter
Confident
Positive
Assertive
Assured

WORDS TO FORGOT IMMEDIATELY

Shy
Incompetent
Timid
Passive
Meek
Doubting
Critical
Nervous
Afraid


How do you get from the right side of the page to the left ? COURAGE. You look your fears in the face and dismiss them. That means ignoring nervous cramps, sweaty palms, and a heart beating in double time. The only way to get from A to B is to breathe in, forge ahead, and never turn around. Forcing yourself to accomplish something to take that first step into unchartered water gives you a positive self-history to refer to when the time comes for a harder trial . Trust in yourself little by little. There is no other way to overcome fear.

Use this same logical progression to accomplish the more personal goals of self-improvement. If you aren't happy with your job, or with your pizazz quotient, ask yourself why. Make a list, then tackle it . Don't give in to and set goals to get yourself moving on the right track. Take positive action DOING when facing a negative situation always improves your virtues. Read it aloud whenever you feel insecure.

SUMMARY

1. Start to face your fears by rationally breaking them down and analyzing the components.
   
2. Don't let the past keep you from moving forward. All that exists for you to achieve should tempt you to attempt.
3. Attempt , regardless of possibility of failure, and you won't fail.
4. Trust in yourself and believe in your self-worth. Sit down and make a list of your virtues. Read it aloud whenever you feel insecure.